Monday, November 23, 2009

Thanks Update

So, I've been keeping track in my journal of some of the things that I'm grateful for. But it is a little difficult to come up with some "new" ideas. Most of my gratitude is for my family or something related to my family, so I've had to start thinking hard about what I'm truly grateful for.

Nov. 12: I spent the day stressing about a presentation on mealtime with kids I had to teach as part of our quarterly Relief Society meeting (formerly known as "Enrichment"). I actually learned some new ideas for getting my kids to try new things. I think what I'm most grateful for is that Ronell and I have never had to struggle to put good food before our kids. Even if they choose not to each much, I know that at least Ronell and I can provide for them.

Nov. 13: I'm grateful today for days off. Fridays are the only weekdays that Palmer doesn't go to preschool and it's nice not to rush to get him out the door. Because I know that next year, we won't get any weekdays off when he starts kindergarten (yikes, I"ll have a kindergartener!), I'm set on enjoying them now. We don't get dressed right when wake up and I usually get most of my projects done. It's a good day.

Nov. 14: Today I'm grateful for two things totally unrelated, quilting and my in-laws. I'm doing a monthly quilt class that results in a gorgeous pieced and appliqued quilt. I love learning new techniques and I find myself getting quickly obsessed and feel the need to try out my new skills on every new project. I'm grateful for my mother and father-in-law because they called and asked if they could take the kids for the afternoon and then kept them from 2-7pm. It was so nice of them. Ronell and I went to dinner, packed up summer clothes (it's finally getting cold enough to actually wear long sleeves), and enjoyed watching some football without worrying what the kids were doing. It was a great treat.

Nov. 15: I'm grateful for inspired speakers today. We had Stake Conference and our Area Authority, Elder Daniel Jones spoke to us. I loved so much of what he said. He gave us 20 ways to save our families in the last days. I won't list them all here because then this post would be insanely too long. But some of my favorites (other than the standard ones we all think of) were 1. Be Consistent (echoing Elder. Bednar from conference), 2. Have companionship inventory (we've gotten out of the habit since b-school), 3. Arrive 15 minutes early to church and sit towards the front, 4. Encourage children to get as much education as possible, as well as seeking continuous learning opportunities, 5. Teach your children to save for their own missions and college education.

Nov. 16: Today I'm grateful for my kids' excitement. As part of MBA Spouses Association, we took the kids bowling for FHE. Palmer was is heaven. He was so excited, even if he only knocked down one pin. Portia had a blast, mostly because her friends were there. She only came to our alley when it was her turn to bowl, then she'd shove the ball down the alley and walk back to her friends, without even seeing where the ball went.

Nov. 17: I'm grateful today for time I have with my kids. We built a fort today after naps and watched a movie. It was fun to see how excited the kids were to hang out with me. I know that will quickly fade, so I love that I'm one of their favorite people right now and I'll take every kiss and snuggle I can get.

Nov. 18: I love eating good food at good places. We went to dinner with some of the recruiters from Walmart at Chef's Table in Orem. I'd never been there and felt a little under-refined (if that's a word). It was good to learn more about the good people and the environment of Walmart's home office. I'm grateful not only that we have an offer in this economy, but that it's with a company filled with people who seem to genuinely want to help my husband and I and our family have the best possible experience.

Nov. 19: Okay, crazy day. I went the NAC (National Advisory Council) dinner and met a bunch of business execs who support the Marriott School. Then I went to a friend's house and munched and chatted until midnight. Then I went and saw "New Moon" with 100 MBA Spouses, students, and friends. It was a blast. I'm so grateful that I've been put in a place where I can develop friendships with people I probably never would have met, had we not been in b-school. I love learning more about them, especially in the setting of such cheesiness as a Twilight movie.

Nov. 20: Today I'm grateful for Merrilee Web. She spoke at a NAC spouses' luncheon and touched my heart. She talked about expecting miracles and embracing them, even when they don't look the way we envisioned them. How grateful I am for the many miracles I experience daily. I didn't really want to go to the luncheon (Major sleep hangover from staying up until 3:30am will do that), but I know I needed to hear what Sis. Web had to teach me.

Nov. 21: Today I'm grateful for modern medicine (okay really just the drugs, ha!). Ronell came home from basketball this morning holding his shoulder and saying he couldn't move it. So, off the BYU Health center urgent care we went. After x-rays, chasing kids down the halls, two juice boxes and suckers later, we had the answer. Ronell partially dislocated his shoulder. So with pain pills and splint at hand, we headed home to spend the day relaxing at home. Okay, really Ronell relaxed, I made 100 rolls and tried to contain the kids. But I'm grateful that I got to take care of Ronell. Sometimes he's a little too independent and it's always good to remind him that he needs me. :-)

Nov. 22: Today we had our Hugh/Watson family Thanksgiving at Katy and Jason's home. It was so nice to sit and enjoy the company of family. I'm grateful for the spirit of the holiday season and how everyone seems to happier, more generous, and kinder than at any other time of year. Maybe it's because we're too cold to care about the non-essentials, but I appreciate the opportunity to get together with family and just enjoy each other's company.

If you made it through the novel, you're very patient. Here's your reward! :-) Our friend Chloe, took our Christmas pictures and I loved this one. Enjoy!


Sunday, November 22, 2009

Busy Day

I don't have time right now to post my thanks for the week, but I have been thinking of them. Yesterday was a busy day (today is, too, but I had zero time yesterday to post). Ronell came home from basketball at 7:15 saying he fell on his shoulder and it was really hurting. So we spent the morning at the Urgent Care center at the BYU health center. Diagnosis: Dislocated shoulder. Luckily, it wasn't completely dislocated and Ronell had already popped in back in the right place. So they gave him a splint and some pain pills and sent him home. He's pretty much out of commission for 4-6 weeks. The rest of the day I spent making lots of rolls of the Hugh family Thanksgiving today and trying to keep the kids off Ronell. To top it off, both my kids have coughs, which don't sound bad but are just very annoying. Fun day!

Friday, November 20, 2009

New Moon

So, despite the fact that I'm seriously sleep deprived, I really did have a blast last night. A bunch of friends from the spouse association rented a theater for the opening night of "New Moon" (Thanks, Mandi, for doing all the work). We spent the evening chatting it up at a friends house and headed to the theater for our 12:43am showing. I thoroughly enjoyed it.......probably because New Moon was the one book I like from the Twilight series for two reasons: Jacob Black and they went to Volterra, a little town in Tuscany that I visited on several occasions. This movie was much better than the first. I had to fight the urge to laugh at the cheesiness of the first movie, but this one was pretty well-done. It was entertaining, mostly because it featured lots and lots of Taylor Lautner, which is always a good recipe for an entertaining movie. :-) I'm glad my friends coerced me into going. It was definitely worth the two-day sleep hangover. And because he's a little cutie......enjoy.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Under Construction

I apologize for any weird-looking things on my blog. I'm learning how to make custom blog backgrounds and lots of other fun stuff. Until then, just bear with me.

Are you Obsessed yet?

My new favorite show is Glee. I can't find the video on youtube but here's the link to watch on of my favorite songs "Defying Gravity" sung by two of my favorite characters, Rachel and Kurt. If you want to laugh, cry, and fight the urge to dance for an hour, I'd recommend "Glee". What an amazing show....and it's highly inappropriate, which always makes for a great show.



Wednesday, November 11, 2009

More Thanks to Give

Here's what's been on my mind:

Nov.9: It's Dewayne's birthday today and I'm grateful for extended family, both mine and Ronell's. Our families aren't perfect but they support us and love us in their individual ways. I'm grateful to have family close, especially as the prospect of having no family around is a sad, but real, thought right now. I'm grateful for the talents and gifts each sister, brother, sister-in-law, brother-in-law, niece, and nephew, mother, father, mother-in-law, father-in-law and how I've grown and learned from every one of them.

Nov. 10: I had a baby check-up today (I'm 17 weeks). All is well with both the baby and I. I'm just barely starting to "pop" but I can still wear all my normal clothes. As I listened to this little one's heartbeat and watched Portia's face light up as she listened to that "thump, thump, thump" (she loves telling people what our baby sounds like), I was so grateful for healthy children. With so many friends and family struggling to get pregnant, stay pregnant, and deal with children with complications, I'm so grateful that I get to be pregnant. I complain about not being able to lose the baby weight, but of all the problems that could go wrong with pregnancy, nursing, and the beautiful babies that are the result of all the discomfort, I'll take it. I'm grateful for the joy that has come to my life because of the children the Lord has entrusted to us.

Nov. 11: Today I'm grateful for Portia and her craziness. She drives me bonkers sometimes with her serious attitude. But then I come out of the shower and see this...
Portia was apparently hungry and decided to grab a slice of cold pizza from the fridge while I showered. I love that she grabbed the biggest piece ever. The best part of this is that she ate the whole thing. That's my little lady. (I did make her go sit at the table to finish it). What a funny kid.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

A Month of Thanksgiving

While perusing friends' blogs, I came across the Baker's family blog and Megan is doing a month of Thanksgiving. I love that idea and decided this is a great time for me to be more grateful for the blessings in the lives of our family. Since I'm a few days behind, here's my catch-up thanksgivings:

Nov.1: I'm grateful for the gospel in my life. I can honestly say I'm a better person because I believe in Jesus Christ and that His Atonement can (and regularly does) renew me and remind me how much I need my Savior and the gospel in my life.

Nov. 2: I'm grateful for the beautiful weather. Generally speaking, November is the beginning of the cold and it's usually in the 40's or 50's. This whole week was at least 65 every day. Combine that with the incredible fall colors and the mountains, and our view is stupendous.

Nov. 3: I'm grateful for Primary. I love that Palmer comes home singing the songs he's learned and loves sharing what he's learned from his teachers. Plus, he's got a crush on our Primary President and asks when he gets to see Sister Roberts almost every day.

Nov. 4: I'm grateful for healthy children. So far this year, the kids and I have been healthy. I'm not sure if I should credit the vaccines they recently got or the fact that we eat clementines regularly, but I'm grateful for health.

Nov. 5: I'm grateful for my husband. Though he's often gone with school or his calling, he makes a concerted effort to be home and spend quality time with the kids and I. He's better at balancing the chaos that is our lives and I'm grateful that Heavenly Father brought us together and continued to assure me that this was the man I should marry, despite all the opposition.

Nov. 6: I'm grateful that Ronell's secured one job offer. Walmart offered us an amazing position. While it's taken me a few days (really, months) to accustom myself to the fact that we might be moving to Arkansas, I'm grateful for a company that sees as much potential in my husband as I do and is willing to give him the chance to grow. Even though we haven't decided whether we're accepting the offer just yet, it's a huge blessing to have a good offer with a company that Ronell wants to work for in a community that so far seems to meet all our needs.

Nov. 7: I'm grateful for good friends. I'm not really a great friend and I'm horrible at staying in contact with my dear friends who've moved. I don't know if it's because I don't love talking on the phone or because I'm just lazy, but I know I need to be better at staying in contact. I truly do value my friends near and far, new and old for all that they teach me and how they inspire me to be a better friend and a better person.

Nov. 8: I'm grateful to be a mom. Though it's hectic most of the time, my kids make me laugh every day and I'm grateful that the Lord entrusts these incredible spirits to Ronell and I. Though Palmer is currently is a pre-adolescence phases where he mumbles instead of speaking and Portia has the attitude of a 15-year-old, they teach me continuously about love and patience and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
(Here's a cute picture of the kids at Halloween. Yes, it's random, but I think blog posts are always better when there's a picture somewhere.)

I can't promise I'll update the blog daily, but I'm going to make a concerted effort to think more about the things I'm grateful for during this month. Want to join me?